Hanging out

I have a list of things to do, but I need to write what's in my head before it leaves (which could be any minute).

When Rob and I met, we were as mushy and cutesy as couples get. No... we never condescended to sugary nicknames or babytalk. I swear I have never called him anything that ended in -poo, although he would call me starfish or bunny sometimes because he knew I hated it. We loved playing games together, dancing together, doing outdoors stuff together. You get the gist.

Then we got married. I worked nights and weekends. He decided to graduate almost 2 semesters earlier and took a ton of classes. Then it was grad school, where he worked all hours, I worked a lot of evenings and nights, then bishopric took up the weekends, then scouts, and still grad school. Gone an awful lot. This last year, I became the solo-mom, as Rob was gone almost all the time, except Sundays.

Please don't think I'm whining. I'm not complaining about this. On the contrary. My kids are at a really fun (starting to get independent) stage. I have had absolutely WONDERFUL neighbors who have become adopted family. And I have gained that inner-do-it-yourselfness that God gives women who raise families mostly alone. Really, I have to say that it's been pretty easy. I typically am in my groove with my own routine. Rob and I joked that we have gotten along so well during the stress of moving because we weren't around each other much. But you know, after joking, you wonder if that isn't a little true.

Get to the point, Christina! Okay, Rob took off a full week over Christmas... and while he should have spent a lot more time writing his dissertation, he spent most of the time hanging out with us. And it was so fun! It was awesome. I love just hanging out and even doing nothing with this man. There is always so much we need to get done or go over when he is around, I forgot what it is like to just hang out for days on end. It was GREAT!

I understand that Rob and I will probably never get to be one of those couples that get to spend all their time with each other. Dang it! I think God has nixed that one from the start. Plus, Rob loves scouts. But, I am looking forward and hoping for that day (hopefully in a few months) when he can come home and just hang out with the fam every evening and maybe even helping mow the lawn on Saturdays. OK, I'll mow the lawn if he can just hang out with us. And after this past week, I know it will be tons of fun.